Getting the Love You Want: A Guide for Couples ebook

by Harville Hendrix

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With its step-by-step programme, GETTING THE LOVE YOU WANT will help you create a loving, supportive and revitalized partnership.

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Improving couple communication through the Imago Getting the Love You Want Workshop for Couples.

He mentioned that he felt competent and effective with individuals, but saw the marital relationship as a complex system and he was not always capable of dealing with couples effectively. Please note: This is a reduced version of the abstract. Please refer to PDF for full text. Improving couple communication through the Imago Getting the Love You Want Workshop for Couples.

Originally published in 1988, Getting the Love You Want has helped millions of couples attain more loving . Harville Hendrix, P.

Originally published in 1988, Getting the Love You Want has helped millions of couples attain more loving, supportive, and deeply satisfying relationships. in partnership with his wife, Helen LaKelly Hunt, Ph. originated Imago Relationship Therapy, a unique healing process for couples, prospective couples, and parents.

Harville Hendrix is a relationship counselor with more than 30 years of experience.

Who is it for? About the author. Harville Hendrix is a relationship counselor with more than 30 years of experience. He is a popular guest on Oprah, and his appearances on the show have helped him to introduce the Imago Relationship Therapy program to an international audience. He also wrote the bestselling books Receiving Love and Keeping the Love You Find.

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This national bestselling breakthrough guide (more than 400,000 copies sold in both editions) offers a realistic and accessible program to help couples heal one another and become whole together.

Kupidon

I rarely write reviews but felt compelled to write one about this book. It was loaned to me by my therapist. My wife and I have been struggling in our marriage for years and no matter what I do (or she does), we always seem to fall back on the same old patterns of behavior that don't seem to work. Falling out of love has been a very painful experience indeed.
The situations described in the book were very, very recognizable to me and at times I felt it described it described me and my own feelings exactly. Read this book, even if it is just for the realization that you are not alone in your struggles to make something out of your marriage.
Nobody goes into marriage thinking they are going get divorced some day, but the statistics are grim. Roughly half of all marriages end up in divorce and of the remaining marriages probably 9 out of 10 couples sooner or later end up leading parallel lives where they try to find happiness and fulfillment outside of the relationship with their spouse. That means roughly only 1 in 20 couples end up building a lasting and fulfilling relationship that will last a lifetime. Are we expecting too much of marriage? Few of us would undertake an endeavor knowing there is only a 5% of succeeding, yet we do it anyway.
The book goes on to illustrate that we chose our partners for very specific reasons that few of us are even aware of. Out of thousands of potential partners we are attracted to some people that subconsciously meet very specific character and personality traits. In a sense, we all marry into our problems, the very things that attract us to our partners, become the very same issues that drive a wedge between us.
The book is very practical too in that offers specific exercises and guidelines for couples on how to interact with each other. But don't expect it to be easygoing by any means. I realize now that marriage takes a lot of hard work and commitment every day to make and stay successful. You have to make it a top priority in your life and take nothing for granted. Expect to do a lot of soul searching, be prepared to relive some gut wrenching and painful experiences from the past, be wiling to learn and undo the conditioned automated responses that you have always used, be prepared to be brutally honest to yourself and your spouse. I fear it might be too late for my own marriage but once you get through this catharsis, I do believe you might actually come out with a happier and more fulfilling relationship on the other end.
Regardless, I implore you to read this book. It might help you save your marriage or relationship before it's too late, but even if it does not, it might make you a better person, it will certainly help you build more meaningful relationships with other people and give you a better chance at building lasting and more meaningful future relationships. Good luck to all of you that need this book.

Kerahuginn

Great book on improving communication to better all of your relationships, romantic, familial, and work. The key points are to listen, truly listen, without judgement; let your partner know you have heard them; and do not let your own ego get in the way of improving or allowing for a positive, open, honest, genuine, meaningful relationship.

Vutaur

It's a love hate relationship. It gives you the high of what is possible for love, but it also is painfully raw. If you dare yourself to read it, analyze it, and implement it in your own life. I have read this slowly because I feel like it is a mirror of what is going on inside me, and also takes you back to allll those deal breaker scenarios that makes you single or has sabotaged your marriage. It's makes you cry at times because of the later. I highly suggest this book. It's hard* and painful to read. Insight is great but change is better, I read that somewhere today. Conspire to make your relationship a reality, and keep it by living this book.

Dianantrius

The best single relationship book I have ever read. I was so impressed by it that I have used it in several classes. Hendrix considers that we fall in love with people who our unconscious minds tell us can help us complete our unfinished business from childhood. He explains why opposites attract -- and why those differences then begin to drive us crazy. By the middle of the book, you are ready to despair--but then he devotes the second half to the solution, the "conscious marriage." He gets very specific, with a couples quiz that can however be taken by one partner alone; suggestions; recommendations; and--exercises. Anyone who puts in even half the requested effort will end up, at the very least, knowing a good deal more about his or her partner.

The book is not perfect. Deliberately aimed at a popular audience, the writing is sometimes too simplified. There are links and connections that can be inferred, but that are not spelled out in the book. And HH's optimistic methods are not likely to work for the deeply disturbed or traumatized individual, simply because the degree of change called for is too great.

I give this book to every couple I know, straight or gay, who are getting married.

greed style

This book is AMAZING. It doesn't even have to do with anything about being in a couple so much as exploring yourself and your romantic and non-romantic past, and where your habits and subconscious wants and needs are coming from. HIGHLY recommend.

Shakar

we bought both the workbook and the guide book separately and they seem to have a lot of overlap. I really like that this book Includes a lot of quizzes and activities for couples to work on either together or separately. Some of the references are a little dated, and some of the sample stories are a little cheesy, but overall, I think that the material is applicable, and can absolutely be beneficially to strengthen your marriage if you apply the suggested principles and commit to change. The way I figure it, marriage books are far cheaper than marriage counseling, so would I buy again? Definitely!

Jarortr

This is an incredibly insightful book that is filled with great exercises that work to bring you and your partner together. The only caveat I can see here is for those who are working with a partner with Narcissistic Personality Disorder...it most likely will not work for those couples because the NPD will always have too many needs for the Non-NPD to meet, despite their efforts and the Non-NPD will never get ANY of their needs met, because the NPD views them as an inanimate appliance, not as a living, breathing human or, Heaven forbid, an equal. If your partner is an emotionally healthy, logical, sane person, like most of the population, though, this book will be a tremendous resource for you. It will even help you see what went wrong in your past relationships and increase your own self-awareness. Excellent!